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some blabas on interpals.net
1:42 pm
UTC on October 13, 2009
More and more I come on that site, with the ideas it changes to all these crap dating site or sort of facebook... and so people act like on these sites.
For example, I went on interpals with Chrome Navigator, why there are so many dating sites near??? it's not related to Pals.... after, people think it's dating site aswell. Because if some think that putting dating sites would make men and women go on these and stop dating on interpals.net, then it's totally stupid cos interpals is free, and so are not other sites... I say dating... but I want to vomit when I see ads "find a russian wife" "find a thai wife" as if women were things to buy, slave times is over on earth beeeeeepp HAAAAAAALLLLOOOOOOO... women or men are not things.... and seeing that "pervs" think it's same style or there are lots of people searching that on that site. To take an example, putting ads of dating site on a site which is not for dating, is like if you would put an add with sales on last fashion bra at the buchery or bakery.... Stupid isn't it? so are these "sex, dates adds"
Anyway, I block adds.... so I don't care but now there is another fashion, make that page as a "facebook" And when I say that, it is the less interesting part of facebook that we can see developping here!! Photos.... sometimes people soooooooooo many photos. I don't mind but I don't care of seeing : "me at party" "me at another party" "me at another party"... Etcetc.... and these with 30 photos on each, photos nearly sames each time. If somebody publish many photos, I like there are photos that are selected and cute. It's just a question of quantity. And moreover, ladies, if you put 30 photos of you in party with big lowcut.. it's 30 more messages saying you are sexy... and how are you and friends adds. Sometimes girls don't see the impact that some photos have. Moreover comments are more to classify in "dating" than anything cos generally people don't even know the sens of adjective. If you watch well.. people comment with an adjective that wasn't use before just to be original.. anyway here are some translations for you girls:) Men comment > meaning for men (this is general and teinted with irony so don't yelll)
- you have lovely eyes, hair > Check if we don't see your lowcut on that photo, cos if so.. it means that eyes and hair and a bit low;)
- you are cute > Girl is cute to have sexual relation or more
- you are gorgeous > Girl men know they won't have in their bed but would like to have:)
- you are sexy > Girl for sex only
- I would like to be your friend > "but if I could be your boyfriend, or sex partners it's ok too"
- hi how are you?? > Copy/Paste on each girls page seen. if there is an answer = interest:)
I just wanted to say that... because, maybe people who know that site for long time could agree, that site was more "friendly" before when it was possible to put a photo you couldn't comment and only wall and messages. I'm getting really bored to read formated messages and comment and all... so I wrote it:)
have nice day
For example, I went on interpals with Chrome Navigator, why there are so many dating sites near??? it's not related to Pals.... after, people think it's dating site aswell. Because if some think that putting dating sites would make men and women go on these and stop dating on interpals.net, then it's totally stupid cos interpals is free, and so are not other sites... I say dating... but I want to vomit when I see ads "find a russian wife" "find a thai wife" as if women were things to buy, slave times is over on earth beeeeeepp HAAAAAAALLLLOOOOOOO... women or men are not things.... and seeing that "pervs" think it's same style or there are lots of people searching that on that site. To take an example, putting ads of dating site on a site which is not for dating, is like if you would put an add with sales on last fashion bra at the buchery or bakery.... Stupid isn't it? so are these "sex, dates adds"
Anyway, I block adds.... so I don't care but now there is another fashion, make that page as a "facebook" And when I say that, it is the less interesting part of facebook that we can see developping here!! Photos.... sometimes people soooooooooo many photos. I don't mind but I don't care of seeing : "me at party" "me at another party" "me at another party"... Etcetc.... and these with 30 photos on each, photos nearly sames each time. If somebody publish many photos, I like there are photos that are selected and cute. It's just a question of quantity. And moreover, ladies, if you put 30 photos of you in party with big lowcut.. it's 30 more messages saying you are sexy... and how are you and friends adds. Sometimes girls don't see the impact that some photos have. Moreover comments are more to classify in "dating" than anything cos generally people don't even know the sens of adjective. If you watch well.. people comment with an adjective that wasn't use before just to be original.. anyway here are some translations for you girls:) Men comment > meaning for men (this is general and teinted with irony so don't yelll)
- you have lovely eyes, hair > Check if we don't see your lowcut on that photo, cos if so.. it means that eyes and hair and a bit low;)
- you are cute > Girl is cute to have sexual relation or more
- you are gorgeous > Girl men know they won't have in their bed but would like to have:)
- you are sexy > Girl for sex only
- I would like to be your friend > "but if I could be your boyfriend, or sex partners it's ok too"
- hi how are you?? > Copy/Paste on each girls page seen. if there is an answer = interest:)
I just wanted to say that... because, maybe people who know that site for long time could agree, that site was more "friendly" before when it was possible to put a photo you couldn't comment and only wall and messages. I'm getting really bored to read formated messages and comment and all... so I wrote it:)
have nice day
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LilleNo don't worry :)) you choose your photos. It's not 5 times you with same glass in hand:)) your photos are to show something so I do like:)
and on facebook, it's normal to have photos like it.. cos it's page for personnal stuffs so.. it's your choice and it's nice:)
so this is not for you:)
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Saint Petersburgthere are no sites without a reference to dating today. what is funny about it is even if the girl writes that she is looking only for friends, because she has a boyfriend or a husband, she still can see such notes under her pictures as "you are sexy", "lovely eyes", "would like to be by ur side now" and other similar stuff. i guess people writing that don't read a profile at all :)))
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Lahti
Kyiv
me *takes note! xD I came across a scammer, and of course it was not pleasant. Kind of creepy I'd say, which is the reason why I took my photo out. I do come across some nice people here..oh and don't read my profile xD it was just a challenge from someone, if I could make my profile humorous =0
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Here is what you missed..on interpals there is a section that requires the account owner to state the reason for their profile. At first i wanted to know why so many creeps were lurking around my profile but then is suddenly occurred to me that people are here for "flirting" and "romance" so, i have concluded that some people do come here to date. Then there is the lot who wants to marry you for a green card! you forgot those....
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yeah, I had a nice day, well.
Je suis an Coreanne.
I felt blue.
Where is just beauty except sexy?
Um, I'm finding real friend about more 6 month.
But It's almost impossible unless I learn more English at least.
Language is not comfortable, moreover big part of people want pretty, kind, or superior person in race or country.
sometimes I had saw these adds in beginning Interpal.
(Meet a Korean woman! but It seems a woman of other country..)
After few weeks, I saw these adds on NEWS at 9.
It was kind of adds for illegal prostitution, not marrige.
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Hehe, c'est plutôt correct ca... Personellement ca me fait chier qu'on ne peut pas avoir une photo qui soit "bien" sans être tracassé par des pauvres idiots analphabètes. Quand je n'avais qu'une photo de mon chat, personne ne voulait parler avec moi, maintenant par contre, je recois plein de messages. Il faut ajouter que quelques uns de ces messages sont biens, donc ca apporte plus d'avoir une photo après tout.
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You speak so much sense here. I hate it that people are using this as a dating site. The option to flirt should not be there. I know what you mean about all the stupid low cut tops women wear too. They only talk to men anyway and yet they often say they have a boyfriend. They are so stupid. You seem such a mature and interesting person. You rule.
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Hello! you are right ....and not right. I have not been on this site long but i have met a lot of interesting and good people here. Of course "" I want to vomit"" because of lots of pervets, especially from Turkey and other muslim countries. I do not talk with such people, do not answer them. But there is another problem for me on this site. I do not know English well. Answer me please, is it interesting to talk to person who doesnot know english well? No, not so interesting as talk to people from UK or USA! If you do not know language well , it is very difficult to keep up correspondence. I am always afraid to send message after visiting profiles of "normal" person I am shy. And i should confess that sometimes massages with flirting are very useful. It is very easy to write such message. I am here to learn foreign language! There is only one way to learn it: do not afraid to write messages. But how can i be ready to send a message if there are so many profiles with requests- write me only if you ... are interesting person, do not write me short massages like HI or HELLO. It is not friendly i think.
Warm greetings from Siberia.
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the worst part here, on interpals, is that most people seem to not know difference between having and having NOT "romance/flirting/relationship" checked in "looking for" section. Sometimes I think that some of them don't even bother reading anyone's profile.
And there is also matter of a language barrier, I'm not speaking English perfectly myself, but I think I can communicate my thoughts properly, and yet there are people there who can only write something like "hi how r u u r cute".
Moreover, it's not a problem to them, because they still want you as your wife even thought they don't understand a bit of what you're saying to them.
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Warsaw
BontangTRUE TRUE TRUE! I agree in all with you, I'm an old user as well and years ago this site was more "friendly" now there are a bunch of people that uses this site as facebook, they only want comments in their pictures and that's all ._.
but I'm glad I'm not the only one that thinks this way.
"find a russian wife" "find a thai wife" as if women were things to buy, slave times is over on earth beeeeeepp HAAAAAAALLLLOOOOOOO... women or men are not things....
+10 to you :)
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Kuala LumpurLOL, the last bit was pretty useful to know :)
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