If you focus on the hurt, then what you perpetuate is suffering. But if you focus on wisdom, then what you get is enlightenment.

— Siddhartha Gautama

Don't show a pearl to someone who doesn't understand its value...

do you know the meaning of that quote?

"What is the use of knowledge, if it does not expand a person's soul so that he acts like an ocean that collects garbage.

What is the use of intelligence, if it does not enlarge a person's personality so that he is more able to understand others."

~ Emha Ainun Nadjib

"life is always full of selection and in the end we will be together with those who are on the same frequency".

people come and go,

if it is likened to a journey on a bus, just let people get off one by one, because maybe they have arrived at their respective destinations.
and those who are on the bus until the end, they are the ones who have the same destination as you..✍️

Sometimes, even though we feel sorry for the things we did, nothing can change them. As pain has already been inflicted, the damage has already been done. It was the time when we felt most powerless, as we were bothered by our own guilt and our own conscience.
And to tell you the truth, having conflict with your own conscience is the hardest conflict you will ever encounter in your life. It is like feeling lost in your own home. Drowning in the ocean, but feels thirsty.
Feeling freezing, but hot-burning.
It is true that, no matter how good we try to be, mistakes are unavoidable and, from time to time, we will commit them. No one can ever escape committing mistakes, and no one can change what has happened, but we can learn a lot from them if we will just allow ourselves to be corrected and accept with full accountability the consequences of our actions.
Yes, it is human nature to commit mistakes, but it can't always be used to justify all the wrong actions we took. Instead, learn from them and grow. That's how it must be.

Sometimes Allah takes something away from you, to save you from something worse.

Sometimes people change not because they become someone else, but because they stop pretending. We are often hurt not by the change itself, but by our expectations of the old version that turned out to be just a role. The change may be surprising, but it can be a form of delayed honesty.

Someone who initially seemed caring, patient, or loyal, may have been playing a role in order to be accepted or to achieve something. When all that is no longer needed, the mask is removed and the real face that has been hidden all this time appears. And this is where we often feel betrayed, when in fact what happened was the end of the drama.

Rather than dwelling on disappointment, it is better to see this moment as a lesson in authenticity and hope. We learn that loving someone must be done with open eyes, and that not all change is bad—sometimes it saves us from living in a fake life even longer.

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كُلّمَا عَشت حَيَاتك بِأُسلُوبِك أَكثَر، كُلّمَا سَيَنبذك الأَغبيَاء وَيُحَاربك المُجتَمع أَكثَر، لَكِن فِي النِّهَايَة سَتَجد أَجمَل مَافِي الحَيَاة، سَتَجد نَفْسك.
Setiap kali kamu menjalani hidup dengan caramu sendiri, semakin banyak orang bodoh yang akan menolakmu, dan kebanyakan orang akan melawanmu, tetapi pada akhirnya kamu akan menemukan hal terindah dalam hidup ini, dan kamu akan menemukan dirimu sendiri.

Ikatan hati itu bukan timbul dari saling pandang, tapi dari memandang dengan cara yang sama terhadap kehidupan.

Over and over again I determined, then the determination fell; I took a step forward, but my mind went backwards. Because I was in an era when ignorance became famous, while knowledge seemed to disappear without a trace.

Traces of wisdom have vanished, signs of scholarship have been erased, while darkness looms and flames rage. The pious person is left aside on the side of the road, while the ignorant person is carried by the eyelids.

By God, if I said that the eyes of time are blind, I would not lie; and if I were to criticize the rotation of the firmament which deviates from the axis of truth, I would certainly not be mistaken.

Al-Imam Ar-Razi