First love teaches us how to tremble, but true love teaches us how to endure. One burns, the other heals. And between the two, we learn: love isn't about who comes first, but who makes you never want to leave.

Happiness often makes us lulled, while difficulties secretly forge our maturity. Life is not just about what feels good or painful, but about how we understand the meaning behind each feeling. Because feelings are just waves, and behind them there is a sea of ​​meaning waiting to be dived into by a patient and conscious soul.

Bismillah....
I choose not to love anyone...
until the time when my heart falls on him who gives his whole heart to Allah.
there will be the best time according to Allah. Only Allah can open this heart. Because Allah is the holder of the heart.

يَا مُقَلِّبَ الْقُلُوبِ ثَبِّتْ قَلْبِي عَلَى دِينِكَ

ooh,, Allah, please guard this heart and mind not to disobey You.

Emotions are like clouds.

They come and go. Sometimes clear, sometimes dark, sometimes stormy.

A weak mind believes itself to be a cloud.
When dark clouds come, its world darkens.
When storms come, it crumbles.
A strong mind knows itself to be the sky.
Vast, limitless, and always there beyond the clouds.

It doesn't try to chase the clouds away.
It simply watches them pass by, without being swept away by their current.

It allows itself to feel anger, without becoming angry.
It allows itself to feel sadness, without becoming miserable.
Mental strength isn't the ability to not feel.
It's the ability to not be controlled by what you feel.

When your heart is broken, don't be too quick to accuse the universe of cruelty. Perhaps that's God's way of forging the steel within you. For only through pain do humans learn to stand taller, look deeper, and walk further toward heights they never imagined. God breaks your heart because he wants to strengthen you to rise in status, not because he wants to bring you down or demean you.

I used to think that being intelligent meant having a wealth of knowledge and a high academic grade.

But life has taught me that being intelligent is the ability to understand depth, which gives birth to wisdom.

Being intelligent means being able to overcome life's problems, understand life, and fulfill the role God has given you to the best of your ability...

Good morning. have a nice day

Pernikahan tanpa ilmu hanya akan berbuah kompetisi sengit: antara dominasi logika kaum adam melawan dominasi perasaan kaum hawa. kompetisi sengit itu akn berujung bom waktu yg mampu meledak kapan saja

The most painful thing in this world isn’t heartbreak, tears, or loss… it’s Istidraaj.

That’s when Allah blesses someone with wealth, ease, and answered du’as… but their heart keeps sinning. Life feels ‘perfect,’ yet it’s a warning. Ya Allah, protect us.

The Qur’an warns: “And We gave them enjoyment for a little; then We will drive them to severe punishment.”.
(Al-A’raf 7:182)

❝ Believe that all of God's destiny is good. If we feel that there is something that is bad, just remember, it is not destiny that is bad, but our perspective that has not reached the point of seeing the wisdom behind that destiny. ❞

🍂Loss is God's Love Language

Loss is a gentle whisper from heaven,
that your grip isn't always tight.
What you thought was truly yours,
is actually just a gift that must be returned.

God doesn't take to hurt,
He merely guides the heart to realize,
that what is fleeting is merely a worldly illusion,
while what is eternal is only God's pleasure.

Tears are not a sign of weakness,
but a way to cleanse the soul
from attachment.

Because in every pain you feel,
there lies a beautiful promise, a grace beyond loss.

Remember His words,
"Everything on earth will perish,
but the Face of your Lord, the Possessor of Greatness and Glory, remains eternal." (QS. Ar-Rahman: 26–27)

So let go of what has gone with an open heart,
because in the sight of God, nothing is
truly lost.
What's slipping from your grasp,
actually being embraced by the true Owner,
and later, if Allah wills,
will be replaced with something more beautiful
and eternal...