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Why nudism? 3:55 pm UTC on December 16, 2009
I really enjoy going nude.  There, I said it as bluntly as I can, so that nobody has to ask if I really meant what my profile seems to say.

Of course, then the question is, why?

Mainly, it's comfortable.  Oh, if it got cold I might get at least partly dressed, but more likely, I'd turn up the heat a little or toss an eiderdown around my shoulders.

It also has a very intimate feel when you're relaxing with friends ... casually chatting about whatever comes to mind, an atmosphere of trust and confidence.

For those of us who want to be a little more conscious of the environment, nudity has some obvious advantages.  For example, less laundry, which means less electricity and water used, and less detergent going into our lakes and streams.  For that matter, less damage to the environment from making the clothes in the first place!

I've sometimes thought that, in addition to banning watering lawns and washing cars during droughts, cities should encourage nudity at those times.

Sometimes I get questions about the erotic side of nudism - I enjoy that in the right company, but at a regular nude beach, or when posing for an art class, it isn't actually an issue.  If you can get used to pretty women in bikinis, you can (and do) get used to them nude.

By the way, there's nothing shameful in posing nude for artists, any more than there is in being the artist who does a good drawing of a nude model.  If we can respect the artist, we can respect the model.

One of the weakest arguments that I've heard is that someone believes that nudity is offensive.  Ignoring the question of how long it would be offensive if it were seen every day, I don't understand the relevance of it.  Being offended is not the same as being harmed.

There are lots of things that offend me.  T-shirts, bumper stickers, some television shows and movies.  Some of them I can avoid, some I can't.  But I'm not actually being harmed, and I don't have the right to order someone to cover up a bumper sticker just because I find it disgusting.

"But I don't want to go nude at the beach!"  Uh, nobody's saying that you'd be forced to go nude, any more than you're currently forced to wear a skimpy (but legal) swimsuit now.

Stores can set dress codes, just as they do now (requiring shirts for men, for instance), and nobody has to allow a nude visitor into their home, just as you can already tell someone wearing an offensive T-shirt that you won't let them in.

I'd like to get comments about this - but I expect them to be polite, even if they disagree.  No namecalling, no insults, and always respect the opinions of others.  I may add or revise parts of this note, if I get comments that I get seem to make it a good idea.

Looking forward to your comments, pro and con!

Steve
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cyfriend 68Limassol
at 10:29 pm UTC on March 16, 2010
very good arguments indeed!
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at 7:45 pm UTC on September 9, 2011
I do like your way of thinking! Me and my boyfriend love to be nude or just partly dressed at home too. :) Unfortunately our quite large windows point to the street, that's why we prefer to wear underwear at least. There is just one arguement I would like to mention which is sort of against nudity. But just permanent nudity. I like to think of the fact that I'm the only one who can enjoy the pleasure of seeing my boyfriend naked. And when he doesn't run around naked all the time the time he does do it becomes more precious as it becomes more rare. As you've said: we did get used to pretty women (and men too ;) in bikinis. And we will get used to them being naked. But this is not a very big issue, just something to be aware of, I think. And the feeling of freedom nudity gives to you is too pleasant itself as well!
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at 5:16 pm UTC on September 10, 2011
We all are different and it is very good. :-) Some people like this and others like that. Somebody drives a Volvo and somebody drives a Cadillac. We all have a different taste about everything and i like it. This little world can be really colourful because of that. Life is great! I like when the wind play on my skin although im not a nudist. But i like so much the nature and natural things. Sometimes i would like to lie down in the air but unfortunately i cant do that because i have no private place. I think everybody can do what is comfortable for them and it doestn hurt anybody. In the long past people didnt have any clothes to wear. Just their hair. But then they felt comfortable to wear some clothes not to get cold.... There is no sexuality at all in the real naturist'a mind when they can see each other naked i think. And it is good. And it is really good and exciting to see each other naked for a couple all day. It means that they trust and accept each other. I am sure that they are absolutely free during making love without any shy and both of them really enjoy to be together on the bed. It can help to be together with real love, respect and trust forever because they are able to talk about any problems with each other freely but with respect of course and in this case they can solve their problems. A good communication can help so much to solve many problems i know. It is the most important i think. I dont think that being naked offends anybody if you do it in the right place and in a right way. Unfortunately people have forgotten that we all have a similar body and it is a natural thing. And most of people are able just to criticise other's body to make them sad and have low confidence. Posing naked in front of artist is a good thing and it really means that both of you trust and respect each other. We all should see many "real"bodies to see the real world and not hate our real "imperfect" bodies all the time. It caueses many problems for many women and men to see just the "perfect" models" s "perfect" bodies. Everybody should accept and like their body i think and in this case most of people must be more well-balanced and confident. Thank you So, just do what you like! :-)
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mama19473 77Guelph
at 2:55 pm UTC on October 22, 2014
I have always felt that nudity is not sexual, at least it shouldn't be. It should be as natural as the sun coming up everyday. My boyfriend and I are often nude at home and only get dressed if someone comes over or we have to go out. Nudity is new to me as I come from a very conservative family and I embrace it whole heartily...there is no other feeling of freedom that I have ever felt than being nude
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