Why so many indonesians here?

There are so many lonely people today. I know this feeling, is horrifying.
"Yeah, yeah, just do something: read a book, find a hobby, take a walk, swim, cycle."
But it's so pointless when you don't feel valued enough, that no one really cares and you feel not so important and useless.
"OK, then connect with someone,"
Sounds like a good plan, but the others want to connect with you?
I mean, why does someone prefer to give advice, instead to feel the person and just be for him. It's so easy if you look from outside.

Here is a free space, feel free to connect if you feel lonely.