How true! The fairy tale cliche': "And they lived happily ever after!" is exactly that! - a fairy tale. I don't know about anyone else, but for me, marriage has been a deep challenge! Probably because most naturally, I am selfish and self-centred. BUT I think I am starting to change. The Bible says that I ought to love my wife, just as Christ loved the Church (He lay down his life for her!) I have ALWAYS struggled with that! It is an impossibility - BUT, I can do all things through Christ, who strengthens me. Andrew.